This article describes my group of friends to a tee. Ironicly, the more we hang out with all these great Christians, the less we date. This author takes an honest look at how a great Christian group may not just be benificial, but also hurtful. My only dislike with the article is that he fails to suggest a solution. I have great Christian community and none of us are willing to just walk away from that. It is what makes my life so much fun right now, but I would hate to think it hinders me from relationships. Plus, the "group" setting worked great in college so we just carried it into adulthood, but maybe things work differently as adults.
Anyways, glance at the article. It is definitely a thought provoker.